So I was just called out by
Tom Lee in his post
A sad day on flashcoders. His post reverberates my sentitments when it comes to the state of my once beloved flashcoders. In April, I actually had some t-shirts made, and if I need to explain it, you simply do not get it.

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Yes, I went that far. And now that Tom outted me out, I suppose I might as well say my two cents, something I have done in the gotoAndSay podcast I do with Leif Wells, and something I just generally do when anyone is willing to listen. I'm such a chick :)
First, let it be known, I came to the flash community from Director. I am sure the Director community at one point was a wonderful, loving, supportive network of people. But as for my experience, it was very closed, very independant and well, any kinda resources for Director development were limited to perhaps 2 decent books and a couple of websites ( my beloved Director-Online, thank you Darrel Plant). Posting to a list ( Direct-L) and getting a good response was a rare occasion to celebrate as the list was like a ghosttown.
I started off as a lurker on the Flashcoders list. Not a bad thing, in my opinion. Most of it seemed over my head at the time and I just kept on to absorb what I could. Flashcoders became a great resource for me, chances are if i was stumbling with a problem, someone else had too, and if I searched the archives I would more often than not find what I was looking for. Granted, searching the archives has never been beautifully executed in the history that I have used Flashcoders, but heh, it was there, and there to be used.
I'm sure I posted my share of stupid questions. I'm sure I was quick on the draw in hitting the submit button. But I learned, and I learned what the line was, because often Branden Hall would post a " OT- the end" type of warning and the list be like hushed children in a library and back to being productive and focused.
Now, OT is pretty much an everyday occurance on Flashcoders with people posting responses back to questions/postings that are more Craiglist than Flashcoders. Seriously. That made me giggle re-reading that, but I can't think of a better description. I'm still on Flashcoders, I still try to help out and respond where I can but I'm going to be right up front for the reason that I more often than not - don't reply. I don't enjoy getting 600 emails a day in inbox where many of them just have LOL!, or HTH! or some other random web etiqutte one liner response that does nothing but fire off a " You've Got Mail" signal to however many thousands of people are subscribed.
I also don't enjoy the intellectual jousting that turns into a my wang is biggger than your wang, bring out the ruler to prove it, type of behaviour that seems to happen. Maybe I am particularily sensitive, since I don't have a wang, but it seems like I respond and actually put time and effort into my response and someone has to respond with the " you forgot this and this " and not in an " in addition to what someone said " tone, but in a " that last gold star is mine" kinda way. Fair enough. I think its great people expand on topics and add their thoughts/experience - but people forget, with emails, come tone. Its another form of communication - it will be interpreted. So when someone responds to a flashcoders post with a " right from the docs " , they aren't shitting gold bricks of happiness- they're a wee bit agitated that someone forget the golden rule - RTFM.
After many discussions about this very topic, even one very late drunken debate at FITC with Ryan Matsikas ( www.chewtinfoil.com),Lanny McNie and Tony MacDonell - the conclusion was that you simply outgrow the list because at some point it no longer aids you in learning. I don't totally buy that either, there are still people posting interesting questions and challenges that stimulate great conversation. I just think people need to be told to shut it. Maybe not in those words, which is why i don't offer to moderate it...
So we created tshirts. We being I kinda came up with the idea and Ryan did the illustration. I have some if someone is interested in picking one up. But the only way to save it is to banish the OT which will hopefully make room for interesting questions/problems etc.